Therapy to help with issues around gender identity and sexuality
What is gender dysphoria?
Gender Dysphoria (or gender identity disorder) is the name given to the feeling of discomfort that a person may experience living as the gender that the person was assigned at birth. If a person feels that they do not fully identify with their ‘assigned’ gender, they may experience a wide range of psychological symptoms, such as stress, depression and isolation. Such people are most commonly known as ‘transgender’ or being on the ‘trans’ spectrum.
Gender dysphoria is not a mental illness, however, people who experience gender dysphoria often suffer poor mental health as a result of hiding their identity. Talking about it and getting support is the first step to alleviating the symptoms. Young children may perceive themselves as being the opposite sex and the changes that teenagers undergo during puberty may be particularly distressing. Stress and depression may sometimes manifest as the desire to self-harm.
Getting professional help
It is important that children and teenagers should be referred by their GP to a specialist child and adolescent Gender Identity Clinic (GIC) to get a diagnosis and create a treatment plan.
People in the United Kingdom can engage with an Adult GIC once they are 17 years old (but see Scotland below), although there are sometimes protracted waiting times in some areas. After an initial consultation, patients will work with their doctors to agree an action plan. In addition to psychological treatments, hormone / physical therapy options are available for some patients.
Read about how to find an NHS gender identity clinic
Gender Recognition Act in Scotland
A consultation on new legislation which would reform the Gender Recognition Act was launched by the Scottish Government in December 2019. The draft Bill would simplify the process for people who wish to change their gender legally by allowing "self-declaration" rather than a medical diagnosis of gender dysphoria. The new legislation would reduce the two year time-frame for a trans person to live in their preferred gender to three months. It would also introduce a three month "reflection period" between applying for and receiving a Gender Recognition Certificate. Transgender people would no longer apply to the UK Gender Recognition Panel for a GRC, but instead applications would be dealt with by the Registrar General, and the minimum age at which someone could apply to legally change their gender would be reduced to 16.
How can hypnotherapy help with gender dysphoria?
Hypnotherapists use techniques that bring about deep relaxation or 'trance' - a natural and everyday state similar to daydreaming – during which the client is very responsive to suggestions beneficial to their health and wellbeing. Hypnotherapy can be used in association with other techniques such as Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and relaxation to help with a wide range of issues.
For the client affected by gender dysphoria, hypnotherapy can be used to complement treatment plans agreed with a GIC (or whilst awaiting their first appointment). It is of help both to the person affected and also their friends and family in the following ways
Support for the parents of a transgender child – helping them to deal with the anxiety, stress and depression which are commonly associated with Gender Dysphoria.
Coping with discrimination and oppression by building resilience.
Working directly with sufferers with a range of issues including anxiety, stress, depression, loss of identity, sexuality, relationship issues, confidence, performance anxiety, insomnia and other health issues.
Empowering the client by teaching them techniques such as Mindfulness, relaxation and self-hypnosis to enable them to help themselves between sessions and achieve long term wellbeing once therapy has ended.
Enabling them to fully accept themselves and the integration of both parts of their gender.
Support during the ‘social gender role transition’ period (they are typically required to first live in their preferred gender identity full time for at least one year prior to having permanent gender-confirmation surgery.
Hypnotic suggestions for ‘feminisation’ or ‘masculinisation’ behaviours.
Support dealing with the challenges of ‘coming out’ as transgender to family, friends and colleagues – finding the courage, self-confidence and resilience.
The next steps
The first step is to speak to a professional. Whether this is their GP, or a specialist support and advice service. Once a decision is made that they want further help, professional support is essential. A therapist experienced in gender dysphoria and trans people will have an understanding of what they are going through, and the best ways to help. h2 Hypnotherapy can offer valuable additional support, both before and during a treatment plan process agreed with a GIC specialist
What is feminisation hypnosis?
Feminisation hypnosis helps transgender and transsexual men become more womanly. Regardless if we are male or female, we consist of both male and female parts. For those who may be born male, or have a stronger male side in them, it can be easy to lose touch of the feminine.
Feminization hypnosis is a way to connect to your feminine self without necessarily undergoing drastic physical changes. Men who use feminizing hypnosis for becoming more feminine might do so as part of the full gender reassignment process. Some men might choose to practice feminisation hypnosis because they wish to adopt more feminine mannerisms, habits and thought processes, even if they do not wish to pursue a full gender reassignment later on. It can help transgender and transsexual men behave in more feminine ways automatically and unconsciously.
Hormone treatments alone often can't erase the lifetime of masculine mannerisms, thought patterns, beliefs, and habits that have often already established. Feminising hypnosis seeks to replace these mannerisms, beliefs and thought patterns with more feminine ones. Feminising hypnosis works with the subconscious mind to implant hypnotic suggestions that can help the subject to think and behave in more feminine ways, without conscious effort. Even men who do not wish to undergo a full gender reassignment may use this hypnosis technique to feel more comfortable with themselves.